{"id":167,"date":"2013-04-05T15:10:49","date_gmt":"2013-04-05T15:10:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.corividae.com\/shiny\/?p=167"},"modified":"2013-04-05T15:15:15","modified_gmt":"2013-04-05T15:15:15","slug":"e-is-for-explanations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.corividae.com\/shiny\/e-is-for-explanations\/","title":{"rendered":"E is for an Explanation"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Blogging<\/a>Originally I planned to make E be about ‘Erotica vs. Porn’ but someone commented and asked what BDSM stood for and I thought “Oh. Bad, bad Cori. You should never assume people just know these things.” so I wanted to explain that instead (I’ll fit the erotica vs porn thing in later).<\/p>\n

Firstly, what does BDSM stand for. Good question and, like most things, there is more than one answer \ud83d\ude42 Most of the people I know say BDSM stands for b<\/strong>ondage, d<\/strong>omination, s<\/strong>adism and m<\/strong>asochism but there are other answers too. Sometimes the d can stand for discipline, and the s and m bits can also be slave and master.<\/p>\n

I was curious to see how Wikipedia defined BDSM and they said, in part:<\/p>\n

BDSM has always been used as a catch-all phrase to include a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. With an ethos of “your kink is OK!”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I am mostly including their definition because of the last bit. Your kink is OK. As long as it is safe, sane and consensual*, your kink is okay. I’m not trying to be prescriptive here at Cori Vidae and I understand that everything is highly individualized, especially when it comes to what gets you hot.<\/p>\n

*Or risk-aware consensual kink but I tend to find that SSC is an easier concept for people new to kink to grasp.<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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